Positive pleasure-oriented goals are much more powerful motivators than negative fear-based ones. Although each is successful separately,the right combination of both is the most powerful motivational force known to humankind.
Benjamin Franklin,inventor,statesman,writer,publisher and economist relates in his autobiography that early in his life he decided to focus on arriving at moral perfection. He made a list of 13 virtues,assigning a page to each. Under each virtue he wrote a summary that gave it fuller meaning. Then he practiced each one for a certain length of time. To make these virtues a habit,Franklin can up with a method to grade himself on his daily actions. In a journal he drew a table with a row for every virtue and a column for every day of the week.
The best way is to develop and follow a plan. Start with your goals in mind and then work backwards to develop the plan. What steps are required to get you to the goals? Make the plan as detailed as possible.
The first thing to remember about success is that it is a process – nothing more,nothing less. There is really no magic to it and it’s not Reservedonly for a select few people. As such,success really has nothing to do with luck,coincidence or fate. It really comes down to understanding the steps in the process and then executing on those steps.